Clitoral Stimulation Techniques

It appears that the difference between vaginal and clitoral orgasm was first theorized upon by Sigmund Freud, who thus launched the two concepts. His act would have tremendous impact on many people’s sexual lives for decades.  It seems that Freud was of the opinion that clitoral stimulation and orgasm are and should remain adolescent phenomena and that a sexually mature woman should have vaginal orgasms, without any sort of clitoral stimulation. This theory was launched in 1905 and the scientific world has come a long way since. Women no longer feel strange about achieving this type of orgasm faster and more frequently than a vaginal one. Masturbation is now a natural part of any woman’s sexual life and people want to know more and more about the different techniques and about what makes the clitoris a safe bet when it comes to orgasms. In the late 60’s doctors Masters and Johnson discovered that both clitoral and vaginal orgasm have the same physiological pre-stages. They were then studying sexual stimulation and its stages. Later on, Helen O’Connell, an Australian doctor, pointed out that according to recent discoveries, the tissue inside the vaginal wall is a clitoral tissue that basically prolongs into the vagina. The fact of the matter is that according to recent medical discoveries, there is no such thing as pure vaginal orgasm. Since some women have more clitoral stimulation nerves than others, unevenly disposed, it follows that some- and not few- women are prone to have an external clitoral orgasm, as they respond better to external stimulation of their clits.

Clitoral stimulation techniques should be regarded as sexual forms of massaging clits. Variety is the key word and each technique presented below should vary every time to some extent, depending on the particularities of each couple. The technique generally referred to as “basic” implies using the tongue to carefully lick the sides of the clitoris. This stimulates the hood of the clit and should be followed by easily retracting the hood using the fingers. The next step is placing the tongue under the clitoris. Then, the tongue should apply gentle strokes directed upwards. A slow, deliberate pace should be maintained. This clitoral stimulation technique usually results in a spectacular orgasm.

Other techniques of clitoral stimulation involve deep strokes using the tongue. Both the jaw and the tongue should be very relaxed. The tong should move from the entrance of the vagina upwards on the clit, in a slow, calm pace, just like licking an ice cream. Then, the lips of the vagina can be parted with the fingers, followed by a gentle flick all around the clitoris, with the tongue rigid and pointed. This second part of the technique is often too intense for some women and generally results in a huge blast of orgasm. Of course, there’s always the option of sucking on the clitoris, flicking the tongue as much as possible around it. Not to mention the use of the fingers, which can be combined with any of the clitoral stimulation techniques described above. It is always important not to stop before the actual orgasm, so as not to have to resume everything from point zero. Also, eye contact is very important. While early tongue strokes should be individual, meaning that the eye contact is broken, as orgasm approaches it is advisable to re-establish eye contact. Combination of tongue strokes with teasing licks make an advanced technique that can be limitlessly improvised upon. As with other matters, adequate improvisation in clitoral stimulation is, of course, essential when it comes to this kind of stimulation. Do not skip the prelude and be careful not play excessively rough.  It is important to bear in mind that clits are always quite sensitive anatomical parts. Learn more about this and other topics at Clitoris.com.