Female Orgasms

It’s easy to access Clitoris.com pages, which is only natural and useful, especially since it is now widely accepted that clitoris orgasms are not only normal, but also considerably more frequent than vaginal orgasm. So how many types of female orgasms are there, really? And most of all, how do they happen? The first thing anybody should do is get rid of any preconceptions. There should be a fine line between myths and facts as far as female orgasms are concerned, but the truth is many people still consider the myths to be true. For instance it is widely believed that a woman who does not have an orgasm does not enjoy sex. Still, the fact is that many women enjoy the physical contact presumed by sex, the intimacy and many other aspects of it and they do not have orgasms every time. Contrary to the popular belief, lack of orgasm is not necessarily somebody’s “fault”. As odd as it may seem, many women have orgasms, clitoris orgasms or vaginal ones, but they don’t really know they’ve had them because they expect something more explosive. Other women become very aroused during the sexual act, but they never reach a peak, which causes them to become nervous and stressed about it. The truth is both relaxation and communication are of utmost importance. Also, people should try to use their imagination more.

While clitoris orgasms is quite easy to achieve via clitoral stimulation, vaginal orgasms require harder work. A relatively recent medical theory on how the female orgasms work, suggests that the orgasm is not so much a linear process, but more of a cyclic one. In very few words, desire is what which feeds arousal and orgasm, but orgasm is not necessarily a peak and many people are capable of feeling satisfaction at any stage. This new theory proposed by Doctor Rosemary Basson in the 80’ was considered revolutionary at the time and it is now largely accepted. Moreover, the fact that the clitoris is the equivalent of the penis, in the sense that they develop from the same kind of embryo structure, made it easier to understand why many women are only or rather able to have a clitoris orgasm.  It was Freud who, in 1905, made a clear statement: in his opinion, clitoral stimulation and orgasm were very adolescent-like. He thought that a sexually mature woman should have vaginal orgasms. Later on, it was discovered that the part of the vagina that receives direct stimulation during intercourse is actually the part of the clit that prolongs inside the vagina. This is how the theory of the G-spot orgasms started.  G-spot orgasms occur because of the stimulation of a little area behind the woman’s pubic bone. Its size varies from woman to woman. The G-spot orgasms are the rarest female orgasms.

Many times female orgasms depend on how much time women take to know their bodies. Communication between partners is also very important in female orgasms because this is how partners let each other know what they prefer. Accepting one’s own sexuality is also vital to female orgasms. There should be no stress and no sense of guilt, also no psychological pressure. Exercising the muscle involved in orgasm always helps. Stopping midstream while peeing and clenching those muscles when not peeing is very good exercise.