Vaginal Orgasm

While most women report that they reach orgasm more easily via clitoral stimulation, other women state that they only have vaginal orgasm, via G-spot stimulation, most probably. Anybody can get informed on this topic, just by click opening a few well documented web pages, such as Clitoris.com, but what you should be aware of from the beginning is that vaginal orgasm is not completely separate and estranged from clitoral stimulation. Why? Because according to medical discoveries, the clitoris is not only what one sees on the outside. The same kind of clitoral tissue, sometimes more innervated, sometimes less innervated extends within the vagina. Thus, vaginal orgasm is to some extent a variety of the clit orgasm. Only 20% of women are able to reach vaginal orgasm, while the rest of them need clit stimulation and more.

The reason why that happens is that the vagina is not a particularly sensitive area. What is sensitive about the vagina is the clit extension itself. So, only the first two inches of the vagina are actually sensitive. This is not actually a bad thing, if we think of the vagina being also used for childbirth. If this area would be too sensitive giving birth would be even more painful and complicated. The question is why some women are prone to vaginal orgasm? Sometimes the small labia is thus shaped that penetration causes it to rub against the clitoris, or slightly pull on it. It could be that this is actually what causes the so called vaginal orgasm. Of course there’s also the G spot stimulation. Well known of late and still shrouded in mystery, the G-spot is actually a somewhat bean shaped area of the vagina, that many women report to be highly sensitive and erogenous. If aroused, this area is likely to facilitate multiple orgasms and female ejaculation. Although G spot stimulation was considered to be the key to female orgasm, a recent British study points out that its actual existence was not proven objectively. Still, many women who cannot find their G spot and cannot benefit from G spot stimulation resort to plastic surgery to obtain enhanced sensitivity. It is called a G spot amplification surgery .

On the other hand, the most valuable orgasm tips for a successful vaginal orgasm are the common sense ones:
Good communication between partners is essential. They should both feel relaxed and free of any pressure and most of all, comfortable with their own sexuality. Communication can often be physical or instinctual and it is not only verbal. However, it is always good to talk about unknown or unclear things. We live, we learn. Each time you experience a vaginal orgasm or you offer your partner one, try to remember what steps you went through, what happened and how it felt, but also how the other responded. This doesn’t mean that orgasms can be reiterated by using the same techniques again and again. Improvisation is also very important.

It’s always a good idea to stimulate a woman mentally first. Her being sexually aroused on a mental level facilitates the sexual response of her body to all sexual stimulation. Do not be shy about using clit stimulation in the beginning. This does not mean she cannot have a vaginal orgasm afterwards. Toys and vibrators are always a good idea too and partners should learn to keep an open mind and embrace their sexual liberty. Exploring together creates the kind of intimacy that facilitates orgasm. Remember to work out your vaginal muscles. This can be done by clutching them while sitting or standing, no matter what you are doing in the meantime. It’s an exercise you can do daily, even while at the office. Another tip about exercising those muscles is stopping midstream while peeing and then continuing peeing again. It may seem strange in the beginning but it is healthy and it will facilitate your experiencing vaginal orgasms.

Last, but not least, remember that knowing oneself is perhaps more important than having a skillful partner. Don’t hesitate to explore your vagina while masturbating and try to remember what you feel, how you feel it and what triggers it. Then, feel free to share with your partner.